What they NEVER tell long-term singles

Disclaimer: none of what I say is standard so this may not be an experience that will happen for sure. It’s just what happened to me and I figure others could relate on some level. Also, this all should apply to consenting peoples, preferably people who understand the rules of consent.   As I’ve said a few times in my life, I’m single as FUCK! … Continue reading What they NEVER tell long-term singles

Is bigger better? Not Always, but Maybe?

DISCLAIMER: I’m talking about sex, vaginal sex specifically, so read at your own will. I’m strictly speaking from my own experience and my thoughts. Please note that not every person who likes dick or takes dick is like this. People like what they like, know what they like and can handle, so size does matter to some. Example being, I don’t have a physical condition … Continue reading Is bigger better? Not Always, but Maybe?

Cup of Overthinking with Anxiety cookies

It always amazes me how fast one can take a small thought and it spiral horribly out of control. The one time someone doesn’t text you back when they normally do. When hours past and you don’t hear from them and you try to not worry, but you do. I’ve been there. I live there haha. Due to how my life was setup when I … Continue reading Cup of Overthinking with Anxiety cookies

When to Delete the Dating Apps

So, I was talking to a friend recently. Funny enough, she and I are going through the similar thing at the moment. We both stumbled across guys who have in a way changed the plan for us. They’ve come with intention and are seemingly backing up their intentions. They’re honest, open, sweet, and just great. For her and her guy, he told her he deleted … Continue reading When to Delete the Dating Apps

Current Cosplay Project for Otakon #1: Baron Samedi genderbend, Baroness Samedi/Lady Baron Samedi

Disclaimer: I will be using the term “canon” a lot in this blog and future blogs. Canon is a term used by the anime/manga/geek/nerd fandom that basically means something that is accurate according to the official storyline such as a manga, novel, anime, comic, etc. It’s used to distinguish the official story (i.e. a manga) from a fanfiction or something else. Example: Pikachu is officially … Continue reading Current Cosplay Project for Otakon #1: Baron Samedi genderbend, Baroness Samedi/Lady Baron Samedi